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Dealing With Vocational Disappointment

Curtis

Oct 23, 2002

 

 



 


We all like to be appreciated, and many of us get a great deal of satisfaction out of our work. We also enjoy the added financial compensation that accompanies job advancement. But in today's complex and changing technological society, the time comes all too soon when, for many, the progress stops. A man discovers that he's as skilled as he ever will be at his job. He may be only in his forties, but he starts seeing newly trained younger people passing him by. Worse still, his job may be phased out and he can find no other place where his training helps him to get a job.

 

When the half-century mark nears, many people who hold respectable jobs and provide well for their families start feeling like failures. "All I've ever done is sell cars! When my working days are over, what have I really accomplished?"

 

People who take life with some degree of serious thought--whether unskilled laborers, skilled technicians, professionals, or executives--reach the point at which the glamour, idealism, and expectation of youth are replaced by solemn self-evaluation. That is why a skilled 52-year-old surgeon in a television interview said that he is trying to have some fun now because he receives little satisfaction or fulfillment in his work. All he has done is to slightly postpone the inevitable.

 

A man who had reached the top in three fairly large companies said that his success is not giving him much pleasure. At the other end of the spectrum are the middle-aged and elderly who feel they are complete failures because they never made a lot of money or accomplished anything great by human standards.

 

The "successful but unsatisfied" and the "unsuccessful and frustrated" need to see that our real worth is not in how much we have accumulated nor how much we have accomplished. Young men and women must be aware of two dangerous "dragons"--activism and materialism. Activism says, "You are what you have accomplished." Materialism says, "You are what you have acquired or accumulated." Both activism and materialism produce misery and destroy lives.

 

The Bible shows that our worth in God's eyes has nothing to do with how successful we are by this world's standard or how much we have accumulated. Our worth is found in the fact that God created us in His image and gave us the authority to rule over the earth as His representatives (Gen. 1:27-30; Ps. 8). Therefore, every one of us possesses a unique dignity and authority on the earth.

 

Sin prevented us from accomplishing all that God created us for, but He did not abandon us. Way back in eternity, He determined that at the proper time the Second Person of the Trinity would become a member of the human race, live without sin, take our punishment by dying on a cross (John 3:16; 2 Cor. 5:21), and rise from death (1 Cor. 15:25-58). Every believer has been chosen by God to be the recipient of forgiveness and eternal life (Eph. 1:3-6). This is what gives us tremendous value in God's sight.

 

Since believers will someday be on display before the angels and all other intelligent beings as the objects of God's love and grace (Eph. 2:6-7; 3:10-11), we can be assured that we are all significant--either in life or in death.

 

This thought is expressed beautifully in Psalm 116:15, "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints." The Hebrew word translated "precious" sometimes means "valuable" (the "precious stones" in 2 Samuel 12:30 were jewels), but it also means "costly"--that which has cost pain or toil, as in Proverbs 12:27. Since the psalmist is praising God for delivering him from death, the idea of "costly" better fits the context. The death of a devout believer is costly to God because He loses for earthly service a person He chose from eternity, forgave through the death of the Son, changed through the new birth, and equipped through the gift of the indwelling Spirit. That's why God does not lightly let His children die.

 

What we need to remember is that He who sees the fall of a sparrow as significant (Matt. 10:29-31) shares the pain we and all of our loved ones feel. He highly values you and me. And the value He places on us has nothing to do with how rich or famous we are.

 

 

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