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Making Tough Decisions – Four Indicators

Curtis

May 21, 2003

 

 

Many times in my life, I have had to make decisions “in the dark” that would affect not only myself but my loved ones as well.  Decisions about where I was going to work, where we were going to live, which church we would attend when we got there and many other major decisions-all the while hoping and praying that I was remaining in God’s will. When you and I are making a decision "in the dark," we can test our options in four ways that will help to assure us that our decision is in the center of God's will. The four indicators that I use to determine God's will in making a decision are:

 

1. The confirmation of God's Word

2. My inner conviction

3. Practical circumstances

4. The counsel of godly, mature Christian friends

 

In Acts 10, Peter made a major decision that has affected the Church to this day. In Acts 11, Peter explained his decision to the church leaders in Jerusalem.

 

In order to step out in faith, confident that your decision is in God's will, at least three of the four indicators should be positive.

 

Sometimes, practical circumstances don't seem to line up. God may be testing you, requiring you to take a step of faith before things work out. When the children of Israel crossed the Jordan River, they had to get their feet wet before the waters rolled back (Joshua 3:15-16). But if God closes the door, you cannot force it open (Revelation 3:7), so don't try to manipulate circumstances to make your decision work.

 

At other times, you may be unable to discern your inner conviction, or you may not feel strongly one way or another about a specific direction. But as you begin to walk by faith, increasingly you should have a deep inner confidence that your decision is of God.

 

It may be that your Christian friends disagree with your decision. Or you may not know several godly people to whom you can go for wise counsel. As a result, this indicator will not line up. However, as you begin to follow through on your decision, mature Christians should confirm it.

 

"When you and I are making a decision 'in the dark,' we also can line up the indicators that assure us our decision is in the center of God's will."

 

When one of the above indicators is missing, it is still possible to step out in faith. But the one indicator that is indispensable is the confirmation of God's Word. You must have it -- no exceptions. God's Word can come to you in various ways: through your daily devotions or Bible study, through a sermon, through a verse that comes to mind while praying, or through searching the Scriptures specifically for it. But in order to be assured that your decision is in God's will, you must have His Word to confirm it.

 

I can testify from years of experience (looking back at successes and failures) that these indicators will work. The biggest problem I have had is releasing my desires and yielding to God's desire when the indicators don't line up. This becomes easier as our faith grows. Are your indicators in line? If so, praise God! You can step out in faith, asking and trusting God to shut the door if for some reason you have misread His direction. He has promised to guide the meek -- those who have no agendas of their own but simply desire to walk in the center of His will (Psalm 25:9).

 

Some other scriptures that I lean on when I am seeking God's Will in my life are:

 

Matt 6:25-30

Eph 6:10-18

1 Jn 2:15-17

1 Cor 10:13

James 1:2-4

2 Cor 12:9-10

Phil 4:13

Heb 13:5

 

Remember to always keep your focus on God! (Prov 3:5)

 

One of my favorite movies of all time is "Out of Africa" starring Meryl Streep and Robert Redford. In the movie Meryl Streep's character, Karen Blixen, makes a very profound statement that I have never forgotten. She says "Perhaps he knew as I did not that the world was made round so we don't see too far down the road." There is so much truth in that statement because if we knew what lay ahead, what would be the purpose of faith? ...just a thought....

 

 

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